Jealousy

Jealousy has no place in my relationship. Here is why:

I feel that jealousy is a weak trait especially for a dom. My man needs to have confidence and trust in me.

Jealousy is an emotion, and the word typically refers to the thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, concern and anxiety over an anticipated loss or status of something of great personal value, particularly in reference to a human connection.

I can not submit to a man that is insecure and feels that I would not be loyal to him. My man knows I will be loyal to him. As he should. A good dom needs that confidence in himself (herself) and the relationship. A dom should be a subs rock. Someone that the sub can count on. If the dom will break down and freak out over a small thing like the sub simply talking to someone else then that is not acceptable. Unless the dom has stated previously that the sub can not talk to anyone else (in which case I as the sub would re think a relationship with that person).

On the other hand if the subs behavior is genuinely bad and the sub is cheating then that is different. Then you should only feel anger and terminate the relationship right away. Discuss and outline what is and is not acceptable behavior for your sub. This really brings the discussion back to communication which is necessary in any relationship.

Feel free to disagree and discuss below…

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All work & no play…

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Work has been keeping me busy so I have not really been able to update this. We have sort of gotten our play room together and re purposed some exercise equipment. Yesterday we decided that we may try to make our own vacp20150817-183927-1bed! That will be a fun project =)

I will post photos here and a step by step of how we make the vacbed when we do =)

I have also made my own spreader bar. Photo —>.

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Brain Melt

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My brain melted last night. Lol Not literately. I imagine its like those drugs people talk about. It happened even before we got to the bedroom. I love that feeling. Nothing matters. Your brain just shuts off and only focuses on the feeling.