We are a very relaxed couple and he hates micromanaging. But here are our guidelines / rules…
Always respect him and what he asks
Work on the bad attitude
Dont be afraid to speak up with questions or concerns
but do so respectfully
Communicate and always speak up when a limit is reached
He will respect you when you do
Our limits are as follows:
Her Limits: Humiliation, broken bones, Fire (soft limit. Will try with a experienced dom if aloud)
Mutual Limits: Urine, feces,
His: needles, blood
To self harm is to deface his property and that is unacceptable.
She will keep herself clean and presentable at all times
Exercise at least once a day
He will understand when she is not feeling well
Though this does not give her an excuse to be lazy
She will keep herself healthy and take care of any health concern that arises
Jealousy has no place in my relationship. Here is why:
I feel that jealousy is a weak trait especially for a dom. My man needs to have confidence and trust in me.
Jealousy is an emotion, and the word typically refers to the thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, concern and anxiety over an anticipated loss or status of something of great personal value, particularly in reference to a human connection.
I can not submit to a man that is insecure and feels that I would not be loyal to him. My man knows I will be loyal to him. As he should. A good dom needs that confidence in himself (herself) and the relationship. A dom should be a subs rock. Someone that the sub can count on. If the dom will break down and freak out over a small thing like the sub simply talking to someone else then that is not acceptable. Unless the dom has stated previously that the sub can not talk to anyone else (in which case I as the sub would re think a relationship with that person).
On the other hand if the subs behavior is genuinely bad and the sub is cheating then that is different. Then you should only feel anger and terminate the relationship right away. Discuss and outline what is and is not acceptable behavior for your sub. This really brings the discussion back to communication which is necessary in any relationship.
Feel free to disagree and discuss below…
Work has been keeping me busy so I have not really been able to update this. We have sort of gotten our play room together and re purposed some exercise equipment. Yesterday we decided that we may try to make our own vacbed! That will be a fun project =)
I will post photos here and a step by step of how we make the vacbed when we do =)
I have also made my own spreader bar. Photo —>.