Second Life – Pretty Mummy Set By realrestraint (Marine Kelley)

First of all yes I have been a bit obsessed with SL lately. No I am not there to “hook up” or whatever. I have made friends there and I would like to continue to make friends there =)

slsaran1So one of those friends (the awesome katie) sent me a link to the real restraints blog and was like you need to purchase this new item. I was iffy about it at first but it did look gorgeous. My man was sitting next to me and said ya thats awesome you need it haha. So I purchased it and nothing happened… It did not deliver right away =(

So I message the owner with the chat log and purchase info from my account page and she says “I hope im not making a mistake by sending this to you”… excuse me? Way to treat a customer.

Anyway so I have the item and have played with it a bit. It is awesome!! It looks so real. As slsaran2far as I know its really the only plastic wrap item in SL. I had been looking for one forever. The setting are in depth with several different textures (latex, plastic, hose, etc). I love the poses so far. Though not all of the poses we have done irl are there. Its not bad once you figure out how to use the item. You just click the top or bottom of it for the menus.

It is not without its flaws but that is to be expected. You have to find the right body type for it. The creators solution to make it fit is alpha layers that make specific body parts invisible which does not work at all if you make the wrap transparent. Though you could make something creepy / weird for Halloween with it -giggle-.

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I hope you enjoyed the pics and my thoughts. =)

Our Love Story

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We met like everyone meets these days… online. I had just gotten over my sleep with a ton of guys and just have fun after a serious break up phase and was seriously looking. He was adorable in his pics and I almost did not say hi because I thought he might not like me. We texted back and forth for a while. I was 100% honest with him about myself and all of my faults right away. It did not scare him off. He liked my honesty I think. Keeping with being honest kink came up. I really don’t remember how. We were still just texting when it came up. It was super lucky for us that we discovered that we were both kinky and that he had secretly wanted to have someone to tie up but never had the chance.

Sometime after that we met! He picked me up and opened the car door for me! This is the first time I had experienced this. It was different and I like it. We went bowling & he beat me haha. I was super shy and nervous the whole time but I did my best to actually talk and not just sit there lol. Now here is where I have to admit something a little embarrassing. I don’t drive. So after bowling he got me to practice in a parking lot with his car. Haha. He is still helping me with that fear.

Now here comes the really sappy part. I decide its a good idea to go to the beach (In November lol). It was cold! He just happened to have a blanket in his car (I’m pretty sure its still in there) and we laied in the sand looking up at the stars cuddling close because it was so cold. Then he leans over and kisses me. =D After that we decide to go back to his place.

 

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The first time he saran wrapped me

 

No we did not have sex but he did end up wrapping me up (even my head). I don’t know why I let him haha. Really I should not have. We barely knew each other but it all worked out. I suppose I live life on the edge a bit.

 

 

 

Months into our relationship he asked me to move in with him! ❤ It was an exhausting move, a bit scary, and VERY exciting! We continue to explore our kinks and that spark is still there. Now we have been together for a year! ❤ Here’s to many more to come.

My First Electric Bondage Scene =)

Thanks to the huge sale at sub-shop.com my sir and I had the chance to finally try electric play. At first it felt very strong and I was not sure if I could handle a more powerful toy but then I got used to it. The pads in the vaginal area acted as a vibrator on the fast setting making me cum a couple times. The slow setting is more painful which is nice for a masochist like me. =) The wrap was nice and tight! I think we will be getting more of it. Though at one point it did fail to stick to itself and came apart during play. I think those metal clips that come with medical wrap would be good to reinforce it. Thank you Autumn for the low prices and awesome shop!

Four Day Punishment?!

p20151218-044103-1I don’t think you can last days without sex or bondage. -My Sir

Ok bring it! Haha na it was more like NO SEX!? wahhh. It was very difficult. I have a really high sex drive. You would think that’s fun but its really not. Guys are cocky about sex but they can never keep up with my needs. And that’s fine because sex all the time is not realistic. I know that.

So what did you learn from this? -My sir    dragonropecollarbwad

Don’t beg for sex it does not help and is not attractive. Whining about anything is not attractive. I need more self control like my sir has.

Hopefully I will gain self control and stop being whiney about everything. Its not attractive to sir and I need to please him.

 

….Also happy new year guys!!! =)

 

Creative Kink…

Hey guys!

So I have really gotten into making collars, cuffs, floggers, etc. So much so that I have made a new wordpress for it! Check it out here. Also check out my etsy store here.

Our Guidelines / Rules

We are a very relaxed couple and he hates micromanaging. But here are our guidelines / rules…

Attitude:

Always respect him and what he asks

Work on the bad attitude

Dont be afraid to speak up with questions or concerns

but do so respectfully

Limits:

Communicate and always speak up when a limit is reached

He will respect you when you do

Our limits are as follows:

Her Limits: Humiliation, broken bones, Fire (soft limit. Will try with a experienced dom if aloud)

Mutual Limits: Urine, feces,

His: needles, blood

Physical:

To self harm is to deface his property and that is unacceptable.

She will keep herself clean and presentable at all times

Exercise at least once a day

Health:

He will understand when she is not feeling well

Though this does not give her an excuse to be lazy

She will keep herself healthy and take care of any health concern that arises