Creative Kink…

Hey guys!

So I have really gotten into making collars, cuffs, floggers, etc. So much so that I have made a new wordpress for it! Check it out here. Also check out my etsy store here.

Jealousy

Jealousy has no place in my relationship. Here is why:

I feel that jealousy is a weak trait especially for a dom. My man needs to have confidence and trust in me.

Jealousy is an emotion, and the word typically refers to the thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, concern and anxiety over an anticipated loss or status of something of great personal value, particularly in reference to a human connection.

I can not submit to a man that is insecure and feels that I would not be loyal to him. My man knows I will be loyal to him. As he should. A good dom needs that confidence in himself (herself) and the relationship. A dom should be a subs rock. Someone that the sub can count on. If the dom will break down and freak out over a small thing like the sub simply talking to someone else then that is not acceptable. Unless the dom has stated previously that the sub can not talk to anyone else (in which case I as the sub would re think a relationship with that person).

On the other hand if the subs behavior is genuinely bad and the sub is cheating then that is different. Then you should only feel anger and terminate the relationship right away. Discuss and outline what is and is not acceptable behavior for your sub. This really brings the discussion back to communication which is necessary in any relationship.

Feel free to disagree and discuss below…

All work & no play…

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Work has been keeping me busy so I have not really been able to update this. We have sort of gotten our play room together and re purposed some exercise equipment. Yesterday we decided that we may try to make our own vacp20150817-183927-1bed! That will be a fun project =)

I will post photos here and a step by step of how we make the vacbed when we do =)

I have also made my own spreader bar. Photo —>.

Ask me ANYTHING

Hey guys 😉

Im bored so… Ask me ANYTHING….

Q&A

openhubby: Has your sir ever made you do anything you truly didn’t want to?

A: There are days that I don’t feel like cleaning the bathroom or making the bed but I try my best to do it anyway. Exceptions are days when I’m sick. He understands if I need to take a break from those things during times like that. Though he is not super demanding and we do not have a punishment dynamic (as of August 2015 we now do). We discuss new kinks before we try them and I voice any concern about it during that time. If I truly don’t want to do something during a play session he understands and its added to my hard limits.

openhubby: Has he ever convinced you to do something you originally thought was beyond your limits?

Yes! I think if you are not 100% sure about something take baby steps. I was sure being vacuum packed freaked me out too much but we took small steps into it. Read more about that here.

A22man: What is your favorite form of punishment?

Punishment is never supposed to be fun. Punishment would mean I screwed up. A punishment for me would be him ignoring me or worse him tying me up and teasing me but not  doing anything =(

Now what I think you meant was play. Probably specifically impact play. I do enjoy impact play. My favorite would be caning but we also have a flogger, belt, and paddle. Im a bit of a masochist =)