Our Love Story


We met like everyone meets these days… online. I had just gotten over my sleep with a ton of guys and just have fun after a serious break up phase and was seriously looking. He was adorable in his pics and I almost did not say hi because I thought he might not like me. We texted back and forth for a while. I was 100% honest with him about myself and all of my faults right away. It did not scare him off. He liked my honesty I think. Keeping with being honest kink came up. I really don’t remember how. We were still just texting when it came up. It was super lucky for us that we discovered that we were both kinky and that he had secretly wanted to have someone to tie up but never had the chance.

Sometime after that we met! He picked me up and opened the car door for me! This is the first time I had experienced this. It was different and I like it. We went bowling & he beat me haha. I was super shy and nervous the whole time but I did my best to actually talk and not just sit there lol. Now here is where I have to admit something a little embarrassing. I don’t drive. So after bowling he got me to practice in a parking lot with his car. Haha. He is still helping me with that fear.

Now here comes the really sappy part. I decide its a good idea to go to the beach (In November lol). It was cold! He just happened to have a blanket in his car (I’m pretty sure its still in there) and we laied in the sand looking up at the stars cuddling close because it was so cold. Then he leans over and kisses me. =D After that we decide to go back to his place.



The first time he saran wrapped me


No we did not have sex but he did end up wrapping me up (even my head). I don’t know why I let him haha. Really I should not have. We barely knew each other but it all worked out. I suppose I live life on the edge a bit.




Months into our relationship he asked me to move in with him! ❤ It was an exhausting move, a bit scary, and VERY exciting! We continue to explore our kinks and that spark is still there. Now we have been together for a year! ❤ Here’s to many more to come.


Four Day Punishment?!

p20151218-044103-1I don’t think you can last days without sex or bondage. -My Sir

Ok bring it! Haha na it was more like NO SEX!? wahhh. It was very difficult. I have a really high sex drive. You would think that’s fun but its really not. Guys are cocky about sex but they can never keep up with my needs. And that’s fine because sex all the time is not realistic. I know that.

So what did you learn from this? -My sir    dragonropecollarbwad

Don’t beg for sex it does not help and is not attractive. Whining about anything is not attractive. I need more self control like my sir has.

Hopefully I will gain self control and stop being whiney about everything. Its not attractive to sir and I need to please him.


….Also happy new year guys!!! =)



Hey guys 😉

Im bored so… Ask me ANYTHING….


openhubby: Has your sir ever made you do anything you truly didn’t want to?

A: There are days that I don’t feel like cleaning the bathroom or making the bed but I try my best to do it anyway. Exceptions are days when I’m sick. He understands if I need to take a break from those things during times like that. Though he is not super demanding and we do not have a punishment dynamic (as of August 2015 we now do). We discuss new kinks before we try them and I voice any concern about it during that time. If I truly don’t want to do something during a play session he understands and its added to my hard limits.

openhubby: Has he ever convinced you to do something you originally thought was beyond your limits?

Yes! I think if you are not 100% sure about something take baby steps. I was sure being vacuum packed freaked me out too much but we took small steps into it. Read more about that here.

A22man: What is your favorite form of punishment?

Punishment is never supposed to be fun. Punishment would mean I screwed up. A punishment for me would be him ignoring me or worse him tying me up and teasing me but not  doing anything =(

Now what I think you meant was play. Probably specifically impact play. I do enjoy impact play. My favorite would be caning but we also have a flogger, belt, and paddle. Im a bit of a masochist =)

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