Hey guys 😉

Im bored so… Ask me ANYTHING….


openhubby: Has your sir ever made you do anything you truly didn’t want to?

A: There are days that I don’t feel like cleaning the bathroom or making the bed but I try my best to do it anyway. Exceptions are days when I’m sick. He understands if I need to take a break from those things during times like that. Though he is not super demanding and we do not have a punishment dynamic (as of August 2015 we now do). We discuss new kinks before we try them and I voice any concern about it during that time. If I truly don’t want to do something during a play session he understands and its added to my hard limits.

openhubby: Has he ever convinced you to do something you originally thought was beyond your limits?

Yes! I think if you are not 100% sure about something take baby steps. I was sure being vacuum packed freaked me out too much but we took small steps into it. Read more about that here.

A22man: What is your favorite form of punishment?

Punishment is never supposed to be fun. Punishment would mean I screwed up. A punishment for me would be him ignoring me or worse him tying me up and teasing me but not  doing anything =(

Now what I think you meant was play. Probably specifically impact play. I do enjoy impact play. My favorite would be caning but we also have a flogger, belt, and paddle. Im a bit of a masochist =)


Brain Melt


My brain melted last night. Lol Not literately. I imagine its like those drugs people talk about. It happened even before we got to the bedroom. I love that feeling. Nothing matters. Your brain just shuts off and only focuses on the feeling.

Tie Me Down


I cant wait to get this bed put back up! Hopefully we are doing that tomorrow!

Love to make up my own ties



Now if I could remember exactly how I did this… =P

Internal Struggles

No one has the perfect relationship and even with a power exchange you can have big fights that make you feel like crap. My irrational outbursts just come out sometimes. Its contradictory to my submissiveness and it really makes me feel shitty. It hurts me when I hurt him. He forgave me pretty quickly but I can not forgive myself. I have failed him. This makes me want to be 100 times better at serving him and making him happy. I need to makeup for this.


A few of my favorite things…


Ball Gags and Metal Rings.

Blindfolds and Funishings.

These are a few of my favorite things!

When the dom bites, when the whip stings

When im in subspace

I simply remember my favorite things

And then I feel alive….