Your perfectly imperfect.
Someone told me this a couple days ago. Don’t dwell on your mistakes and/or imperfections because those things make you you and hopefully you learn from them and grow.
Hey guys 😉
Im bored so… Ask me ANYTHING….
openhubby: Has your sir ever made you do anything you truly didn’t want to?
A: There are days that I don’t feel like cleaning the bathroom or making the bed but I try my best to do it anyway. Exceptions are days when I’m sick. He understands if I need to take a break from those things during times like that. Though he is not super demanding
and we do not have a punishment dynamic (as of August 2015 we now do). We discuss new kinks before we try them and I voice any concern about it during that time. If I truly don’t want to do something during a play session he understands and its added to my hard limits.
openhubby: Has he ever convinced you to do something you originally thought was beyond your limits?
Yes! I think if you are not 100% sure about something take baby steps. I was sure being vacuum packed freaked me out too much but we took small steps into it. Read more about that here.
Punishment is never supposed to be fun. Punishment would mean I screwed up. A punishment for me would be him ignoring me or worse him tying me up and teasing me but not doing anything =(
Now what I think you meant was play. Probably specifically impact play. I do enjoy impact play. My favorite would be caning but we also have a flogger, belt, and paddle. Im a bit of a masochist =)